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It is with deep regret that the City of Stamford Fire Department announces the passing of retired Fire Mechanic Doug Henley, Sr..
Douglas Haywood Henley, Sr., a man of dedication, creativity, and service, passed away peacefully on February 25, 2025, joining his beloved parents, Haywood and Carmen Henley, and his brother, Vincent, in eternal rest. Born on March 4, 1947, in Stamford, Connecticut, Douglas was the cherished firstborn of his family. His formative years in Stamford shaped him into a resourceful and skilled individual. He graduated from J.M. Wright Technical High School in 1965, where he nurtured a passion for hands-on work and problem-solving. This innate creativity manifested in his lifelong love of tinkering and repairing, particularly with electronics, a skill that brought him and those around him much practical benefit.
Douglas’s commitment to his community was profound. He was a respected and impactful baseball coach for the Jackie Robinson Little League, mentoring countless young athletes and instilling in them the values of teamwork and sportsmanship. His dedication to public service was further exemplified by his pioneering role as one of the first African Americans to join the Stamford Fire Department in August 1975.
For over 27 years, Douglas served the Stamford community with courage and integrity, rising to the rank of Lieutenant. At a department award ceremony in the Fall of 1994, Douglas was honored for rescuing a child from a burning building on December 13,1993. His commitment to the safety and well-being of others was unwavering, and he retired honorably on September 3, 2002. Following his retirement, he embraced a new chapter of his life, relocating to Augusta, Georgia, where he enjoyed a more tranquil pace.
Douglas leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion. He is survived by his loving wife, Ruby Crear Henley of Augusta, GA, who shared many cherished years with him. His memory will be forever treasured by his son, Douglas H. Henley, II (Yvette) of Winter Garden, FL, and his daughter, Theresa D. Cobb of Stamford, CT. He was a proud and loving grandfather to Sahara and Arabia Henley, Hayvin (Nathan) Miller, and Jostin Cobb, who brought him immense joy. He is also survived by his sisters, Patricia Roberson of Lawrenceville, GA, and Licia “Moochie” Kendall of Stamford, CT, and his sister-in-law, Elaine Henley of Hamden, CT, along with a host of nieces, nephews, and friends who will remember him for his kindness, his ingenuity, and his unwavering spirit.
Douglas Haywood Henley, Sr.’s life was a testament to his dedication to family, community, and service. His impact will continue to be felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him.